Are you struggling with a big decision that could possibly change your life?
Are your uncertain about what the best decision is?
Are you overwhelmed by the feelings of uncertainty?
We all make choices every single day and most of them are not really that important in the grand scheme of things. When you wake up, you have to decide what clothing to wear and what to pack for your lunch. These are easy choices. When you have to make bigger and more important decisions, it can be very stressful and you can feel like you can’t even breathe.
Guideline To Make The Right Decision
If you are feeling overwhelmed and confused, don’t give up. If you follow the guidelines below, you are sure to make the right decision.
Write A List Of Every Single Action
The first thing to do is to sit down and write a list of every single action you could take to resolve your current situation. When you are struggling with a big decision, you may feel like you don’t really have any good options. Writing all your possible choices down will help you clear out your head and help you avoid making a decision you may regret without thinking it through. Get every thought you have about your dilemma out of your head and onto the paper.
Imaging What Woudl Happen If You Chose Each Action
The next thing you should do is look at everything you wrote down on your list and try to imagine what would happen if you chose each one. What would the results be for each choice that you have in front of you. Write down everything whether it is a good consequence or a bad consequence.
Research To Make The Right Choice
Once you have a good idea of how each choice you have could end up, you should do some research and if possible get some hard data to help you make the right choice. Make sure you educate yourself about all the options that you have so you can make the best possible choice.
Try to Get Honest Opinion
Now you should think about the friends and family that you trust and find someone who will listen to your dilemma and give you their honest opinion. Choose someone who is a good listener and who will be open and honest with you about what they think but also not try to convince you to do something you don’t really want to do. Find someone whose opinion you respect.
Figure Out What Is Best For You
Now that you have all the information you need to make the right decision, you need to really listen to your intuition and what your gut is telling you. Usually, we know what the right decision is deep down inside but it just takes some time and being honest with yourself to really figure out what it is that is best for you.
Time To Make A Decision
Now that you have all the information you need, it is time to make a decision. Choose the best option for your situation and don’t look back. Trust that you made the right choice.